If you have questions about whom you are attracted to, we’re glad you’re here.
Sexual orientation is an important aspect of a young person’s identity. All people want to be loved and respected. Sexual orientation is only one part of who we are. It is important to treat all people well. That includes loving and respecting yourself, whatever your sexual orientation, even if it is hard for others to be supportive or accepting.
Terminology to identify sexuality continues to change, and you may commonly hear gay or lesbians. Whether you are heterosexual, bisexual, homosexual, asexual, gender fluid, or other–it’s your sexual orientation, and it’s your choice.
Nevertheless, many people of the LGBTQIA+ community are afraid to let their sexual orientation be known because they fear the disapproval of others. If you are concerned about this, it will be helpful if you talk to an understanding person in your life or TeenSpace.
Teen years are a time for finding out who you are. You may be feeling alone and confused right now as you search for your sexual identity. You may be wondering what other people think about you, or you may be frightened of what you’re feeling or experiencing. We encourage you to talk to trusted friends, parents, clergy, and school counselors.
Remember, teen years are the time for searching. Others are feeling the way you do. Thank you.
Visit the Trevor Project’s The Coming Out Handbook for ways to explore what it means to begin the journey of identifying as part of the LBGTQ community.
